Recently, as I left the church after a service, I walked past the donation box. I hesitated for a moment, but then I thought about how long it would take to dig out my wallet. People were behind me, and I didn’t want to hold them up. Ultimately, I decided that putting in a donation this time would take too long, and I walked past. To be honest, this has happened more than once.

Why do I make this choice? What are my priorities in this situation? It would be more appropriate to stop for a few seconds and help! What if someone else is thinking the same way I am and also walks by? Am I really valuing the 20 seconds I might save over the opportunity to help someone in need? Or do I think that someone else will step in to help?

Sure, someone else might help. But what do I gain from passing by? I am left with the knowledge that I walked past an opportunity to do something good. Why is it so important for me to rush? Christ said that when we help others, we are helping Him: “For I was hungry, and you gave Me something to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me something to drink; I was a stranger, and you invited Me in; I needed clothes, and you clothed Me; I was sick, and you looked after Me; I was in prison, and you came to visit Me” (Matthew 25:35-36).

By walking past, did I refuse to help Christ Himself? What about all the good deeds I could do? It doesn’t take much from me. I don’t even have to go anywhere or search for someone in need. There is a person right there, and I can help.

So why do I keep walking by? Is it really just because retrieving my wallet takes too long? If that’s the case, then I need to change my approach. Now, I make it a point to put some money in my pocket before leaving home, so I can easily and quickly perform this small but meaningful act of kindness.

This simple adjustment has made a significant difference in my ability to give. It reminds me that every small act of generosity counts and that I should not let the rush of life prevent me from helping those in need. By preparing in advance, I can ensure that I am ready to respond to opportunities for kindness, embodying the spirit of compassion that Christ calls us to live out.